The Love of God the Father (June 2023 Update)
A father’s love is absolutely essential for raising children. While single mothers can and do compensate when a father is not at home, nothing gives more stability to a household than having a loving father around. In fact, recent studies have shown that we cannot underestimate the importance of a father in the home. For example, 80% of those in prison grew up in homes where a father was not present. And 71% of all High School dropouts and 90% of homeless and runaway children had absentee fathers.
Mothers provide the nurture and care that children need. Fathers provide the stability that they need. In fact, children look to their fathers to lay down the rules and enforce them. While children look to their mothers for love and affection, they look to their fathers for strength and stability. And when these characteristics come from a loving father, children have the strength and love they need to navigate life.
What does the Bible say about God as our Father? The Old Testament says surprisingly little. Though the Old Testament clearly calls God “Father” a few times (for example, Isa. 63:16; 64:8; Jer. 3:19; Mal. 2:10), the writers of the Old Testament lay greater emphasis on our distance from God and the reverence we should feel for Him. God is revealed more as separate from us and beyond us, and He is seen less as intimate and close to us. The Old Testament view of God is a true and important reminder that God is holy and deserves our worship.
But when we come to the New Testament, the reverse is true. The New Testament refers to God as Father more than any other term. Jesus used the term “Father” more than any other term whenever he spoke about God. God is described as our Father to show that He is personally, emotionally, and even sacrificially involved with us. In fact, Jesus even used the term “Abba” or “Daddy” to refer to God. This especially offended the Pharisees. And when he was teaching on prayer in Matthew 7:11, Jesus said, “If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!” In other words, while fathers are not perfect and some are not even good, God as our Father always gives His children what is best for them.




